Kids Who Care Coffee Shop

Just over a year ago, my husband and I left our home in Corning, NY to come to PE, South Africa for Lou's job.  Along with leaving family and friends, I also left my job as a teacher at Southside High School in Elmira, NY.  I have to admit that it didn't take me long to get used to not working, though occasionally the desire to stand before a classroom full of teenagers with an attitude sweeps over me. 

I hadn't stepped through the doors of a school building since June 2010 until last Thursday for PE Coffee Crawl's visit to the Kids Who Care Coffee Shop located at Theodor Herzl Primary School in Walmer.  This coffee shop, run by the 3rd grade class, was open to the public on August 11 from 9 am til 12:30 pm as a fundraiser for "The House Of Resurrection" for AIDS orphans.  One of the participating 3rd graders, Daniel Surmon, happens to be the son of PE Coffee Crawler Leanne Waller and grandson of June Nash.  When June presented the Crawlers with Daniel's request for us to attend this charity event, we all enthusiatically agreed.  What an opportunity...enjoying a cup of coffee while benefitting a good cause at the same time...a real win-win!

Well, we all met in the parking lot and entered the school through a gauntlet of eager 3rd graders bearing cafeteria trays.  Daniel led us to Table 6 which he and three friends, Lisa, Okuhle, and Gabbi, were responsible for decorating earlier that morning.  The decorations provided my Afrikaans lesson for the week as items on the table were labeled in both English and Afrikaans.  The table's orange and black motif was eye-catching and very well coordinated especially with the gold and black fish swimming in the centerpiece bowl.  The fish bowl was a great touch, kids!  And to all the groups who decorated other tables...a job well done...all your creativity and hard work paid off...the place looked tremendous!


                                                                             
The 3rd graders, under the guidance of their teachers, Penny Shaw and Victoria Waller, have adopted "The House Of Resurrection" for AIDS orphans as this school year's focus on community service.  They have been working hard all year to raise money for donations and gifts for this local charity.  It is nice to know that all the funds raised by these entrepreneurial youngsters stays in PE to benefit orphans of local AIDS victims. 

Not only did the children greet and serve the patrons of the "coffee shop," they also helped the school chef, Lizzy Mtyatyeni, to prepare the tea, coffee, and muffins!  Last week's crawlers, Beth Vieira, Gail Darne, Fran and Keith de Beer, June and Howard Nash, Leanne and Lodie Waller, Belinda Hunter, Gail Waller, Beryl and Stella Dawson, and my daughter, Liz, all kept Daniel and crew busy with 2 rounds of coffee and muffins for everyone.  Yes, we did break the No-Food-On-The-Crawl rule, but it was for a good cause and the muffins were awesome! 

 


Meet the Baristas: Lizzy and Victoria




Daniel and Mrs. Shaw
During our visit, I had the opportunity to speak with Daniel's teacher, Penny Shaw as well as the school principal, Elise Crouse.  They were both excited about the day's activities and were very proud of all the students. 

Amid all the youthful enthusiasm of the morning, the Crawlers still managed to get in some interesting table talk.  Topping the list was a discussion of exotic vacation spots including Hawaii, Mauritius, and Madagascar (where I hear all the inhabitants are quite animated.......).  The next topic was obnoxiously large shoe sizes of female celebrities.  Try saying that 5 times fast!  Which led somehow to a discussion of lemurs...how that happened I'll never know but Liz later told me that lemurs are only indigenous to Madagascar.  The conversation then transitioned smoothly into a stovetop versus electric kettle debate; Liz proudly defending the classic stovetop model and Gail Darne responding with a cheeky, "Yeah, we did that in Africa...30 years ago!"  Any thoughts on that one, readers? 

On to Keith's useless fact of the week:  The first air freshener for bathrooms was a pomegranate stuffed with whole cloves.  Talk about spicing things up in the loo!!! 

After a few hours of "coffee for a cause," the Crawl came to an abrupt end with the ringing of the school bell.  Reverting back to our school days, like Pavlov's dogs, all the Crawlers packed up and filed out of the school. 




This Week's Crawlers: Gaile D, Liz, Fran, Keith, June, Howard, Lisa, Daniel, Okuhle, Leanne, Gail W, Beryl, Stella, Beth (Not Pictured: Belinda and Lodie)


* Kudos to Penny Shaw, Victoria Waller, and their 3rd grade class for sponsoring the Kids Who Care Coffee Shop.  Thank you for your efforts! 
* A special thank you to Daniel for inviting the Crawlers...you got my vote for the best waiter. 
* Thank you to Lizzy M. for those wonderful muffins!
* Thank you to all teachers everywhere for inspiring young people to make a difference!

Until tomorrow,

Ellen

P.S. Thank you for being patient with the picture confusion for the time being.  With my improved computer skills and Firefly's guidance, the blog is under construction! 

Performance Psychology - THE MASTER STORYTELLER

Sourced from ACTAS E-News - authored by Sarah Jack

This is a terrific article that makes good reading for players and parents of young players. It goes beyond Football!



Our mind is like the world’s greatest storyteller. It NEVER shuts up. It’s always got a story to tell and guess what it wants more than anything else? It ants what any good storyteller wants. It wants us to listen; it wants to grab our attention and pull us away from what we are doing.

Even if it’s painful, nasty or scary. And some of the stories it tells us are true. We call those ‘facts’. But most of the stories it tells us, we can’t really call ‘facts’. They’re more like opinions, beliefs, ideas, attitudes, assumptions, judgements, predictions etcetera. They’re stories about how we see the world, and what we want to do, and what we think is right and wrong or fair and unfair and so on.

So if you’re willing, sit back, get comfortable and do this exercise – close your eyes; don’t say anything for about thirty seconds – and just listen to the story your mind is telling you right now.

One of the key insights to learn is that our thoughts do not control our actions.

Thoughts have a lot of influence on our actions when we hold on too tightly to them, but they have much less influence when we take a step back from our thoughts and look at them for what they really are ... nothing more or less than a bunch of words or picture ‘inside your head’.

When you have this insight you begin to recognise that a thought; may or may not be true; is definitely not a command you have to obey or a rule to have to follow; is definitely not a threat to you; is not something happening in the physical world; may or may not be important to you – you have a choice as to how much attention you pay it; and can be allowed to come and go of its own accord without any need for you to hold on to it or push it away.

It’s not important if a thought is true or false; positive or negative; right or wrong.

One of the things we do want to learn is how to recognise when a thought is helpful, and when it isn’t.

The question here is; ‘If you let this thought and/or feeling guide your behaviour, will it help you achieve what you want to achieve, to do the things you want to do; to be the person you want to be?’

So ... just listen ... what is your mind telling you right now?